I'm often saddened, disappointed, betrayed, even by people who are very dear to me.

My brother is a good heart,

Indeed, trust and affection is a requirement for the makers of disappointment and betrayal of the heart.

You can not possibly be disappointed with people who do not trust you or not you care about.

Only someone who you trust and who you love - which could hurt you.

So really, the beginning of it all is the choice of someone who you trust and you care about.

If you believe in and love the right person, you may still be disappointed here and the there, but it is to increase the beauty of your togetherness with him.

So, do not just love, to care whether the right person, with whom thou shalt glorify each other.